Anger and hate from the past destroy relationships of the present
Because everyone else is to blame but the one who numbs and denies his pain from women who are dead and gone, no longer a part of his life or able to hurt him
He fills his mind and body with angry and hateful messages spoken by angry, hateful, incredulous others who make women their loyal servants and concubines
Some of the women he hurts manage to go on to the future and recover from his hatefulness and angry acts
While he stays painfully and tragically stuck in the past, haunted by the women who undoubtedly hurt him
He is bound to be angry and hateful again
He will hurt other women again
To subconsciously make them pay for the hurt he endured in the past
And this he thinks this is normal or even acceptable
Worthy of of his own life – that he is willing to sacrifice to the ones who didn’t have the capacity or the courage to love him so very, very long ago.
When with conscious, thoughtful work and support, he could be free to love himself and others, without destroying his own hopes of happiness and those of others along the way.
Instead of unfortunately believing, due to his own angry and hateful actions, that he will never find the happinesses and peace he so desperately desires.
© 2017 annalise fonza, Ph.D.